As we face the dawn of a new year, I want to extend my love and well wishes to you all.
As we look back on this year and reflect on the things that worked and didn't work, let's try not to be so hard on ourselves and resolve to seek our hearts for a path forward that feels right for the coming year. Let's be true to our Wildness and never fear being misunderstood by others.
Let's have the courage to be ourselves always, because we cannot control how others will perceive the things we do and say in this life. People are people, and people will judge. They will perceive us through their own mental conditoning no matter what we do or say, but I encourage you to stay true. Stand firm in the truth of self-knowing. Know yourself and your intentions. Most of all, know your heart and live from your soul. The truth is always there in your heart. You are always the authority on who and what your intentions are. Never let the misunderstandings, misgivings, and misinterpretations of others dictate this for you, or dictate who you are.
Rest confidently in knowing yourself and allow yourself to be free of concern and free of the attachment to being liked or loved. The ones meant to be in your life will BE in your life. The ones who are not, will simply fade away in the natural order of things. Give love and receive love, but most of all, give appreciation for all the experiences...good or bad...because every experience helps us to grow and evolve in the big picture.
Surrender to the flow of things. Embrace the relationships that are healthy and release the ones that are no longer healthy, never were healthy, or never truly existed. The energy of it never lies. When a relationship of any kind is nourishing and healthy, then it feels good. If it does not feel good...if the energy feels negative, critical, doubting, cynical, judging, indifferent, neglectful, etc...then pay attention. Listen to your heart, and act accordingly.
You can love someone so much, but ultimately the energy you give must somehow return, or it will drain and deplete you. All healthy relationships are about maintaining a healthy energetic balance of give and take.
Being a wild-hearted free-thinking spirit is part of your radiance! It means being true to yourself and living in your natural state. It means living life from the inside, embracing those who accept and love you as you are, and letting go of those who are critical, negative, indifferent, or make you feel judged.
You are a divine natural force in this world. You deserve to love and be loved as you are without conditions, without having to conform, and without having to shrink and play small with your life!
May tomorrow be the first day of a radiantly WILD New Year!
Wild Love Always! 💖